Life is complicated. Nothing has ever come easy to anyone. You struggle, you fight and, eventually, you survive. You fail, you succeed, but all you do is keep going on. Nature has set its course easy on us. Given us dawn until dusk to work, eat, exercise, and restore energy through sleep. But it isn’t so simple, is it?
Our lives are more complex with our human companions a part of it. Those who we can’t live without, those who bless us, and those who we are good without — each leaving an impact on the course of our ever-so-different journeys. As a hobby-based counsellor (more like a listener and an advisor), many questions that I tend to receive are related to people. I realised that most troubles, heartaches, happiness, and sadness one feels are all somehow connected to that one (or more) relationship we care about.
So, what’s the advice you should know when it comes to relationship management? What’s a foolproof recipe to create a sound environment and connection with the relationships we have? Every situation differs. Each human being is different. All matters should have an individualistic approach to its solution. Here are some general rules I preliminary set for everyone seeking advice.