At a recent virtual forum hosted by Taylor's Centre for Family Business, participants were invited to reflect on a familiar yet rarely examined experience: why Chinese New Year dinners in business families can become unexpectedly tense. Drawing from research and lived experiences, the session unpacked how festive gatherings often surface deeper structural tensions that already exist within the family enterprise. Rather than viewing awkward moments as purely emotional or personality driven, the discussion reframed them as intersections of culture, ownership, hierarchy, and succession.